Why I Don’t Reply to Incomplete Messages

Hi love,

I’d like to take a moment to explain something important - not to be harsh, but to be kind, clear, and respectful of both our time.

I don’t reply to messages that are missing key information. This isn’t about being difficult - it’s about creating a smooth and comfortable experience for both of us, starting with your very first message.

Respect Matters

A simple “Hi Katrin” shows you see me as a human being - not just a service. Messages that begin with “babe,” “hun,” or “hey sexy” feel impersonal and lazy. Polite, respectful, and clear messages stand out - and they’re the ones I respond to.

This applies to everyone - gentlemen, ladies, couples, people with disabilities...

You don’t need to include your age (just be 18+), ethnicity, or profession. Those details don’t matter to me. Any respectful soul is welcome.

✅ What I Need From You

I only respond to messages that include all six details listed below. This helps me stay organised, feel safe, and confirm your booking quickly and professionally:

• Your Name - Names make communication personal and respectful.

• Preferred Day & Time - Please be specific - this helps me confirm availability faster.

• Type of Booking + Duration - This helps me understand what you’re looking for and how to prepare properly.

• City You're Booking In - I travel and work in multiple locations, so I need to know where you're requesting a booking.

• Where You Found Me - This helps ensure you’ve got the correct info, and it helps me track where my advertising is working.

• Mention That You Accept My Deposit Policy - This shows me you’ve read my website, understand my process, and are genuinely serious.

 If you have additional questions, please feel free to include them - but I won’t respond to messages that only contain a question without the required booking info.

​Hello Katrin. I am (NAME), and I would like to book you on (TIME/DAY) for (DURATION/SERVICE) in (CITY). I found you on katrinovak.com. I accept your deposit condition. Thank you

❌ I don’t take phone calls

✔️ Deposit: Beem or e-gift card (details shared once booking is confirmed) (Outcalls - Photo ID) Balance: Paid in cash or via Beem It on the day (no PayID or bank transfer)

📅 Pre-bookings preferred. Last-minute may be possible, but I need at least 1 hour’s notice. Bookings after 7pm, weekends, or outcalls must be booked in advance.

❌ No Deposit = No Booking

I do not accept any booking without a deposit—this applies to new clients and regulars.

A booking is confirmed only after I receive the deposit. Until then, the time is not held for you.

If you’ve been scammed before—I’m truly sorry. But that’s not my responsibility, just like it wouldn’t be yours if I had been mistreated.

You can check my legitimacy easily:👉 Open google incognito window, search my name and profession, and check verified listings and social media.

I’m a well-established provider with:

✔️ With own professional website

✔️ Verified ads on trusted platforms

✔️ A consistent presence on social media (Please note: I do not discuss bookings via social media - no exceptions)

If I Don’t Reply Instantly...

I’ll always respond as soon as I can. I might be in a booking, resting, or handling personal matters.Very occasionally, I might miss your message. If you follow up, please do so kindly with context, not just “???” or “Hi”.

Returning clients - please always include your name, location, date/time, service, and duration in every message.

🚫 What I Don’t Respond To:

• Incomplete booking messages

• “U free?”, “Hey sexy?”, “What’s your address/location?” or “What’s your price/service?”

• No greeting or name

• Asking for service/length, which I clearly don't offer

• Pushy or rude tone

• Selfies/photos of yourself

• Empty SMS templates

• Messages from people who ghosted, disrespected, or wasted my time in the past without any acknowledgment

Why This Matters

Texting takes energy. Unclear or careless messages stress me out. A respectful, detailed message makes me feel safe and excited to connect. That creates the best experience for both of us – genuine and enjoyable, with a natural flow in the actual booking time.

Right now, I don’t respond to about 80% of messages because they don’t meet this basic standard.

I'm not here to prove my value - I'm here to protect my energy and honour my boundaries. That’s not ego - it’s self-respect.

I'm a low-volume provider, and I really love what I do. My work is my passion/hobby. I will never let anyone shame me or pressure me into changing the boundaries I’ve built to stay safe and thrive.

A Note on Boundaries

Every provider runs their business differently. Pushing against someone’s boundaries or refusing to follow their process (like deposits or screening) is not just disrespectful - it contributes to an unsafe space for us.

If someone you care about were in this work - even if you didn’t know it - you’d want them to be treated with dignity and protected with care. Same, I am asking for myself.

There are many providers with different styles and systems. If mine don’t suit you, that’s totally okay. There will always be someone whose approach fits your preferences better.

But mutual respect is non-negotiable.

💛Thank You

To those of you who already message with clarity and kindness, thank you. You make my work feel beautiful, and you inspire me to give you my best.

If you're new here, welcome. Everything you need is on my website.

I look forward to seeing you soon.

With love,

Katrin